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the-devanti:

dylibird:

I haven’t heard that name in a while. the-devanti I think you might want to look into the Dasirae thing (reblogging the post you just made would be moot as I ramble on about something different). It quite possibly was her (doing whatever it is you think others are doing, name dropping a LOT of…

Most people know a lot about my concerns over Dasirae from way back in the Solune / Phoenix Knights / Sunbringers days. Thanks for the heads up. That’s down right crazy behavior but then again so was some of the shit she accused me of too.

I don’t know any of her alts but since I log EVERYTHING, I’ll go back and compare some old logs of her to the anons I have had to deal with. Maybe I’ll find some similarity in spellings or typist habits. If it winds up actually being her..? Holy grudge batman.

Solune was a long, long time ago. Like really. 

Here’s hoping your anon is found :P

I haven’t heard that name in a while. the-devanti I think you might want to look into the Dasirae thing (reblogging the post you just made would be moot as I ramble on about something different). It quite possibly was her (doing whatever it is you think others are doing, name dropping a LOT of people that have nothing to do with the situation).

I say this because, from what I was told by a friend that mistook me for her, she uses my pictures. Not just any pictures, but the pictures of when I was 16. I don’t know where she’s at now, but she may still be using my irl pictures of when I was a minor. But basically my friend said, “Wait, you’re Testra? I thought you were Dasirae. You and her have the same exact pictures.” And I showed him recent ones and I pointed out that she’s not being very sneaky if she’s using someone’s irl photos on the same server she RPs on.

OOC: Record Setting Straight

the-devanti:

dylibird:

Okay, so, this has been bugging me. I’ve read this a few times, and I wish this would be dropped.

Lac, we’ve been friends a while. But Zanpyr’s also my friend, and I tried to stay out of it. I just.. want to show you something, and I hope you take a step back and be a bit more organized.

"I never have and never will harass Zandrae." It doesn’t matter if it’s in-game or not, it’s still harassment. Like what you’re doing right now.

I can and will call out or voice my opinion when I see disgusting and reprehensible behavior.” What you’re doing right now, and to the post that sparked all of this, is disgusting and reprehensible. You showed a screenshot without the rest of the context, and you refuse to have what actually happened shown. If you were abused in a horrible fashion by this individual, I can wholeheartedly understand not wanting to see that.. but you haven’t been abused. You were caught.

You say you don’t want your followers to have a wall of text, so add a Read More or don’t post. Make a separate post if you can’t add a Read More. Find words concise enough and articulate enough to where it can be condensed. Length shouldn’t matter if it’s something people should be concerned about.

Now, I could have privately messaged you about this. But I don’t think that would have done any good.

Because instead of sticking to one thing, you went on about a few other people in a post and to me that’s not very organized. Not to mention you said you were going to leave Inathia and Sinsaria and the Phoenix Guard alone a while ago, but you haven’t. It’s evident in this post.

Plus, you can block tags. These tags also account for tumblr names. It’s called tumblr saviour. It’s worked for me. So if these people truly bother you, I encourage you to check it out.

So, as your friend, I encourage you to stop this hate fest. When I knew you you weren’t this kind of person. I can understand if they did something inexplicably horrible to you that you can’t get away from them. I get it. That kind of thing does change people, but immersing yourself in it still doesn’t help. But you weren’t abused, attacked, etc. by this person. It was just lack of OOC communication involving a story line you wanted to do.

It kind of hurts to see this kind of thing when the origination of this post involved you attacking them on a post that involved getting a message out to save people from someone that has attacked and hurt people on two servers.

You probably should of private messaged it as it tends to appear like yet another “Tumblr Name/Shame” which is Zan’s word, not my own.

Now if I was actually harassing her that would be one thing. But all I’ve written is “Your going too far by posting her data”. Much like it was going too far to post MY data on the WoW Forums. There’s no hate-fest as you call it on my part. A deep sense of pity for all parties and a strong loathing of all brands of cyber-harassment, but not hate.

Also I think it would be fair to say you do not have the full situation Dylibird or the mails / screenshots I do. I posted the least defamatory for a reason.

I’ve been called Shitlord and tons of other classy names due to one thing. Having a different opinion.  

Add to that these anon-attacks.  Because of the specific wording including gratuitous use of shitlord and bitchassedness, I fairly draw a correlation I think.

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Regarding Phoenix Guard, I don’t even know why your bringing it up, but it’s clear you must not of read my post at all. If you had then you’d know that what I said was that I no longer was completely sure Ina and Sin were the parties who have been harassing me. In short newsflash "I MIGHT be wrong. Not sure yet but I’ll assume so until evidence says otherwise." It’s called giving the benefit of the doubt.

I’d rather say “Hey I might be wrong here folks” when something comes up to suggest that, than stick to my guns to the bitter end. Did you not see that I decided to disband the level 1 guild I’ve had for some time? 

Making that decision wasn’t done out of a desire to continue my quarrel with the Phoenix Guard or it’s members. Some of their members are in fact my friends, and I am not going to see people caught in the middle.

What it was, was me making damned sure I was done with it on all levels, and what acts I could to show good faith on my part. No idea if it’ll be returned, but that’s how I work. 

I’m sorry your missing my point, because I am convinced your a good person. Maybe Zanpyr is too. I can’t say. I’ve only met her four times total, and our Skype discourse left me with a strong “avoid” desire.

If it pleases you, I can drop you from follow so that I need not deal with this further and you won’t have to see what I write in turn. I don’t think I’m out of order for having my views, nor do I think your wrong for feeling this way. For my part my solution is to ignore Zandrae. That’s Blizzard’s proscribed solution. I do think however that reblogging things and saying the above though I think is adding gas to a fire when everyone should take a deep breath and walk away.

It’s adding gas to a flame that you keep relighting.

And mentioning Inathia, Sinsaria, or the Phoenix Guard in ANY way, isn’t dropping it. You’re just trying to correct a wrong you did months ago. Does it make you a paragon for it? No. 

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I do think however that reblogging things and saying the above though I think is adding gas to a fire when everyone should take a deep breath and walk away.” Please, for all that is holy, do as you prescribe to do. Every reblog, every POST is “adding fuel to the fire.” 

I don’t need to be the bigger man in something you keep bringing up and didn’t leave alone. In fact, it was something that you and you alone brought up. Playing defensive for something you consistently keep doing and making it sound like the people that reply are the ones that keep igniting it- the fire never died to the point gas needed to be put back on it. No one is even putting gas on it. It’s a fire that you made blaze for days and haven’t the slightest idea how to put out because you didn’t think before you typed.

As for unfollowing me, that’s not how tumblr works. I would have to unfollow you. You are my friend, and friends tend to- or should- tell other friends when they’re in the wrong. As for private messages, it would work for a short time but I want it known this time that I am telling you that what you are doing is wrong and not justifiable.

Because here’s the solution to your gripe that’s been on your tumblr for days: those websites have block features. You can opt your account out. It’s very, very easy. And you posted the macro script to erase battle pets.

OOC: Record Setting Straight

the-devanti:

zanpyr:

acomfyshirt:

the-devanti:

People may wonder sometimes why I am so private with my RPs and rarely if ever have Lacryma get involved in stuff anymore. I think these letters and screenshots really sum up well enough why I do not, and why despite what some say. Most of my issues with others are completely justified.

Didn’t you just post a thread on the BETA FEEDBACK forums whining about slander and harassment on Tumblr?

http://us.battle.net/wow/en/forum/topic/14609681121

I think it’s time for you to stop stalking Zandrae and stop being a hypocrite.

There are two sides to every tale. Wanna hear mine?

@Zanpyr:

No. I do not. I don’t want to hear it on Skype, In-game, or in any other medium, real or imagined. I do not want to hear your side or further excuses. Do not drag me into your troubles. They are not my concern. If you are being harassed, contact Blizzard or Tumblr. I can’t help you.

@Comfyshirt:

As a matter of fact I did on my Death Knight and you know what? I’m glad I did. As a third party observer, the behavior from both sides is quite frankly disgusting and I will not have any part of it. I will however say something about it when I feel I need to, because I’ve seen far too many people commit suicide over such matters.

Shocking as this may be, the only hypocrisy I’ve seen is someone who it seems decided to become as bad as the stalkers real or imagined you claim to be harassed by. I am not saying Zandrae should not enjoy her time in game. She should. We all should.

As for your claim of me stalking Zandrae, your either mentally unstable or a fool. I never have and never will harass Zandrae. I have better shit to do than that. When it pops into my tumblr-box (overriding the ignore I have in place on BOTH your pages), I can and will call out or voice my opinion when I see disgusting and reprehensible behavior. It’s called a two-way conversation and debate. It’s not the Internet logic of "You disagreed! Therefore you are wrong!"

A lot more I could say, but I’ll leave it at that so my followers don’t get a wall of text.

Okay, so, this has been bugging me. I’ve read this a few times, and I wish this would be dropped.

Lac, we’ve been friends a while. But Zanpyr’s also my friend, and I tried to stay out of it. I just.. want to show you something, and I hope you take a step back and be a bit more organized.

"I never have and never will harass Zandrae." It doesn’t matter if it’s in-game or not, it’s still harassment. Like what you’re doing right now.

I can and will call out or voice my opinion when I see disgusting and reprehensible behavior.” What you’re doing right now, and to the post that sparked all of this, is disgusting and reprehensible. You showed a screenshot without the rest of the context, and you refuse to have what actually happened shown. If you were abused in a horrible fashion by this individual, I can wholeheartedly understand not wanting to see that.. but you haven’t been abused. You were caught.

You say you don’t want your followers to have a wall of text, so add a Read More or don’t post. Make a separate post if you can’t add a Read More. Find words concise enough and articulate enough to where it can be condensed. Length shouldn’t matter if it’s something people should be concerned about.

Now, I could have privately messaged you about this. But I don’t think that would have done any good.

Because instead of sticking to one thing, you went on about a few other people in a post and to me that’s not very organized. Not to mention you said you were going to leave Inathia and Sinsaria and the Phoenix Guard alone a while ago, but you haven’t. It’s evident in this post.

Plus, you can block tags. These tags also account for tumblr names. It’s called tumblr saviour. It’s worked for me. So if these people truly bother you, I encourage you to check it out.

So, as your friend, I encourage you to stop this hate fest. When I knew you you weren’t this kind of person. I can understand if they did something inexplicably horrible to you that you can’t get away from them. I get it. That kind of thing does change people, but immersing yourself in it still doesn’t help. But you weren’t abused, attacked, etc. by this person. It was just lack of OOC communication involving a story line you wanted to do.

It kind of hurts to see this kind of thing when the origination of this post involved you attacking them on a post that involved getting a message out to save people from someone that has attacked and hurt people on two servers.

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